WHY?

Why am I the victim of violence?

Why do I inflict violence on others?

There are never simple answers to these questions. Here are some common reasons why people do commit violence:

Expression: Some people use violence to release feelings of anger or frustration. They cant solve their problems, so they turn to violence to express control over their problems.

Manipulation: Violence is often used to control others or get something they want.

Retaliation: Violence is used to retaliate against those who have hurt them or someone they care about.

VIOLENCE IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR.
Factors that contribute to violent behavior include:

• peer pressure
• need for attention or respect
• feelings of low self-worth
• early childhood abuse or neglect
• seeing violence at home

Alcohol and drugs are Not a cause for violence. They are frequently used as an excuse by the batterer to justify his/her violent behavior.

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